As I look around I see my children grown and with children of their own…our grandchildren…I see them growing up becoming young women and men…my oldest, Alexis is now 16yrs old.
Where did the years go…it seems as though it was yesterday when she was the size of Avery. Even Avery soon to be 6months old is growing way too fast. Just as I know you see time…flying…months quickly turning into years. Amy with four children probably has the least time to think about this, but when she is overwhelmed with the things little ones do to trouble their parents…I tell her as my mother told me…they are young now and are on your toes-when they are older they are on your heart. Boy, was that a true statement.
Amy said to that, “that will be easier.” I said to that, “no, my dear it is those things that tug and trouble your heart and you can do nothing about…only pray and trust God. She feels that way because she is right in the midst of her four growing…Seth soon to be 10 years old, Carly 7 years old, Chloe 5 years old, Seth 3 years old…two years apart leaves not much time…add Chloe and her needs you have a busy life.
However, as I remind her these are the easy years…she laughs. I guess you have to experience it to really know. Then I look around and see those we love so that are really aging and watching them become so feeble…when just “yesterday” they were vibrant, working and active…now they are pushing the walker to get around. Where did yesterday go??
This day and time our lives have become so much busier that we really miss seeing so much that is important in life. I am certainly giving my age thinking like this…however, I wish we could slow down and “smell the roses”. Tonight, looking at this precious couple we love so much that is part of our church family…I looked and thought how quick time flew…you were my age(or about)and now you are feeble and it seems this all took place in just months…it could not be years. Yet, it has been…we have been so busy in our lives that we have forgot to see them as they age…it is as though one week they were much younger and today they are so much older. I pray that we all learn to slow down…enjoy those we love and appreciate…take time to talk with them…give them our time…sit with our young ones and just listen to them play and talk…stop to hear what they are saying to us…MAKE time for them…LOVE!LOVE!LOVE!
I thought it was so precious the other day I was talking with Amy and she was coloring with Carly and Chloe…days of sharing that cannot be replaced ever! When I think of the time I am at work and the time four days a week I am home…it is scary. I know we have to so just do it. Well, I am…but I will just make the most of the time I am at home.
My niece, Tracy was saying the other day…I remember the days I stayed at Nana’s(my mother) like Chloe is staying with you. That was yesterday….yesterday was 30years ago. It flew! Let’s all take time for one another…when we are gone people will not remember the time we stayed on the job or the position we held, but how we LOVED them.
“I will instruct you and teach you in the way which you should go; I will counsel you with My eye upon you. Do not be as the horse or as the mule which have no understanding. Whose trappings include bit and bridle to hold them in check. Otherwise they will not come near to you. Many are the sorrows of the wicked; But he who trusts in the Lord, lovingkindness shall surround him. Be glad in the Lord and rejoice you righteous ones, and shout for joy all you who are upright in heart.” Psalms 32:8-11
Our family extends love and appreciation to each of you for your love and decication to Chloe and our family…there are not enough words to say THANK YOU!!!
Mark the date…for the Valentines Father/Daughter Dance and Benefit…Friday, February 13th-7:00PM-9:00PM, at St. Luke Ministry Center. Tickets are on sale now for $20.00 father/daughter…the proceeds will go to help Chloe and her family with medical and traveling expenses back and forth to NY. If you are local you may purchase tickets at Sanctuary Book Store, Kiddie Shoppe, Pigtails and Crewcuts, Bliss Salon. There is more information regarding this and those to contact on www.prayforchloe.
I will also have tickets…call me @706-326-8795 or email me @dwpaul2@yahoo.com. There will be dads and g/dads taking their girls…all ages. Please get the word out and make your plans now to attend. A fun evening for everyone. I must note that Carson Hand will be doing the music for the dance…you do not want to miss this!